I’ve been in a bit of a funk lately. I’m sure it’s the weather… we’ve been breaking records left and right for the cold and snow, records that go back as far as they’ve been recording temperatures here in Saskatchewan – and that’s 120 years of recorded cold and snow levels.
It’s not unheard of to have a freak snowfall in April… but we’re not talking about an odd, one-off, Spring snow. We’re talking about a Winter that appears to be never-ending. We still have over a foot of snow covering most of the yard (and three feet in some corners).
I have seeds awaiting planting. And I’m dying to be spending time with my hands in the good dark earth. I need to put on a pair of clam diggers, and get out in the sunshine. This weather is just making me feel like curling up into a ball and never emerging from my bed.
Normally I spend my birthday outside, having a picnic or bbq. Heck, on several occasions I’ve spent it on the beach. Never in my now 36 years have I been kept indoors by snow.
In spite of the weather though, I had the best birthday I’ve had in a very long while. Lily-Ann insisted that she and her Daddy go to great efforts to make the day special – and I am so grateful that she did. I love Damon, but he’s never been one to make a fuss or do anything to make someone feel important on their day… which means I’d gotten rather used to having crummy birthdays. LOL If I’d had one of those along with this crummy weather? I’m not sure I would have gotten out of bed.
My girl really did make me feel so special. She got her Daddy up in the morning and the two of them made me breakfast in bed – something I’ve never had in my adult life. Then we all watched a couple episodes of Friendship is Magic before heading out to build-a-bear… where Lily-Ann and I picked out, and put together, and chose clothing for a Pinkie Pie stuffy. Whom is now sitting beside my bed being super cute. On our way home we all got smoothies, then vegged for a while before Supper.
My parents had bought me a gift card for Persephone Theater, and with it I bought tickets for Damon and I to see Ride the Cyclone – a musical about a group of dead teenagers. It was very well written, and had us laughing all the way through. Some fabulous performances as well. It was a great way to wrap up a wonderful birthday.
So. I’m 36. I wish it actually looked like Spring, but I had a lovely birthday just the same. Yep. That sums it up pretty well.
Okay. Yeah. I’ve been a really bad blogger lately. Well, maybe not by most standards. After all, there are MANY bloggers who post once a week or even less frequently. But for me? This is bad.
I don’t know if it’s the weather, or just the physical exhaustion after working so hard getting Breaking the Silence up and running then following it up with a very physically demanding photo shoot… Whatever it is? It’s kicking my ass. I’m just done. So I am VERY grateful that the Easter break is now upon us. Not having to worry about our regular schedule, and getting the girl off to school, should help a great deal. And even better? The next couple of days we’re actually supposed to see plus temperatures!
I am so done with this cold and all this snow. I am dying for it all to melt away. I want to cultivate the ground. This house has a nice big garden space (that was unused for who knows how long) and I’m just itching to get out there and plant something. I have so many plans for the outdoor space here, and this extended Winter is making me a little itchy… seriously. I’m so irritable I’ve definitely got a case of cabin fever… Spring just cannot get here fast enough.
Tonight I have to direct you towards another url. As I’ve already chronicled this particular misadventure on my photography website. I do promise though, the many photographs of our frosty day are well worth the visit. I know you’ll laugh as much as we did as we battled the environment to get these important shots.
And a big thank you to Jamie for not only volunteering as my assistant today, but for capturing the entire thing with her iPhone. LMAO
For Denyse’s annual Halloween party we decided on a Disney Pixar Brave theme. However, with our being in the middle of moving house I knew I wouldn’t have time to sew three costumes this year. So we hit the great “interweb” to hunt down whatever we could find – to help lighten the crafting load.
After a couple of days it became apparent that we weren’t going to be able to find anything movie accurate – which was a bit of a drag, but that also gave us a bit of freedom as well. So instead of being Merida, Queen Elinor, and King Fergus we are Merida-inspired, Queen Elinor-inspired, and King Fergus-inspired. LMAO That also meant I could buy a red tartan to make Damon’s costume at half the price a more authentic blue/green tartan would have been… and when you’re buying four meters of something, that adds up pretty quickly. Yay for thriftiness!
With Lily-Ann’s naturally curly red hair, she’s a total natural as Merida. And she was only too proud to tell anyone who’d listen how she doesn’t need a prince to find her happily ever after. Now, because kid kid’s curls are all really pretty soft spirals, I had to do some twisties in her hair overnight. We left the bottom as is, but twisted up six bunches of varying thicknesses up on top. I just twisted each section until it formed tight little twisty piles and then secured each with two bobby pins. It gave her the fly-aways, and crazy tight spirals that Merida sports.
The toughest part of my costume was finding a wig. Seriously, if you need a long brown wig for Halloween you are S.O.L. I ended up settling for what you see here. It was the best I could find – even after hitting two Halloween specialty stores and a costume shop in addition to several general stores. Apparently they figure no-one wants brown hair for Halloween.
I have to admit, with ordering our dresses online I was expecting to have to make alterations once they arrived… but I didn’t have to sew even one stitch on either. Considering I’m a whopping five foot nothing?!?!? I was amazed. If I need a period dress again, I’ll definitely be heading to HolyClothing.com a second time. The girl’s dress was less of a shocker, but still… for straight out of the package, it fit pretty darn well.
So, that’s us this year. We didn’t go on a photo safari… it was just too darn chilly out. So these were taken in my parent’s back yard. Thanks Auntie Risa!
And here’s one more, just a snapshot I grabbed of Lily-Ann at the party, being cute with a stuffed snake:
Oh, and yes… the little stuffed blackbear is from the Disney store. You can flip it inside out and it looks like one of the triplets (we call him Hamish) but the girl wanted him to stay a bear for our pictures. My mom gave him to Lily-Ann on her birthday.
I have to be honest… i haven’t yet decided what to write about tonight. I’m feeling a general disdain about a great many things tonight, and any one of them would likely make a good blog post. Nothing like righteous indignation to fuel a blog post. But then I remind myself that I have made the decision to choose joy whenever possible. And there is no joy to be found in those topics.
I can’t say that I am feeling joyful tonight. I can see my way through to calm, or even peaceful… but not joyful. I’m too tired and road-weary for that. So, I think, tonight I will just leave you with this:
There are a lot of things I could write about tonight… but honestly? I’m feeling rather pensive and mellow without any leanings one way or another. It’s been a crazy week, and I’m starting to settle back into my, already busy, normal routine.
I have to admit, following Samhain I always find myself feeling a little lost – not in a bad way. Just serenely pensive. And tonight is no different. The coming of the dark half of the year spurs a quiet mental preparation. A solemn adieu to the warmth and light that fills us so completely during Summer and Autumn.
Stepping out the door to walk the girl to school I was quickly chilled. Suddenly, my fleece (that yesterday, even out trick or treating at night, was plenty warm) just wasn’t enough. The wind whipped around me and drew my gaze upwards at the few snowflakes that braved a first meander from the heavens… melted before reaching my face. How they could disappear so quickly in such a brisk, frosty, breeze I’m at a loss to explain.
My gaze again settled on earthly things, like my daughter, waiting for me to lock the door so we could begin our promenade:
bow to your partner then join hands
together now, up one block,
cut through the park
throw some leaves, hide behind the trees
back together, hands held tight
look to the left, then the right.
across the street, now do-si-do
It’s a good thing I don’t call out instructions for a square dancing group… we’d all be in trouble. Anyway… it was a chilly walk. Seven blocks of runny noses and cold fingers (well, for me anyway. the girlie had mittens). I’m glad it’s only seven blocks. But if I learned one thing today, it’s that I need to put away our Summer and Autumn gear. It’s time for the heavy duty coats of Winter (though I’ll continue attempting to put off the scarves, hats, ski pants, and boots for as long as I can).
Welcome to November!
I’ve been out sick for the last several days… so I actually have a legitimate excuse for the lack of blog posts lately. LOL It was pretty miserable, so I’m very glad to be on the other side of all that nastiness.
We took the girlie out looking for bikes. With the snow still covering everything, we aren’t in a big rush. But I’m full of Spring thoughts and warm weather wishes… and looking for a two wheeler was a fun springy thing that we could do indoors (where the blowing snow couldn’t get to us).
We visited a couple different stores, and had to have tried out nine or ten different bikes. But I think we may have found a winner. Unlike all the others that piqued her interest, this one has no tassels, no pink or purple, no fairies or princesses, no doll bike seat, no basket, no flower vase… But when she saw it her eyes lit up and she exclaimed: “Wow!! It’s just like a car for racing!!!”
And, the coolest part?
While I know she’d get the hang of any bike after a little practice, all of them were stop and go. Push one peddle down, wait, push the other down, wait… Well, all of them until she tried this one. She needed a little help to get started, but then took off like a flash! She went about 40 feet without any hesitation or signs of slowing. LOL
So I called her Daddy over to help her out so I could pull out my BlackBerry to take a quick video.
And yes, if I could figure out how to embed a fb video here I would. LMAO But, for now you’ll just have to click on the link.
On Sunday afternoon I had the privilege of doing a sweethearts photo shoot out in the snow with Jaclyn and Kim. I love shooting in the snow, and though it presents its own unique challenges, I wish it was something more folk were willing to consider. So when Jaclyn suggested it (without any prompting on my part) I was thrilled.
The two of them will be receiving a disk with over 100 images on it from our hour-long session. But figured I’d share a few of my favourites here, both as a preview for them, and for me to show off. LOL I absolutely adore shooting couples in love… and a couple in love out in the snow? Awesome!
Here are a couple of the wee girlie’s Little People… out in the snow. You can see bits of the barn and the house, but the people and the bus are well buried by now. She has some she plays with inside, but these were sets that we got passed on to us second (and third) hand, so are ideal for outside play. But I just found something humorous in the way they are peeking out of the snow. We just didn’t get them put away before the first big snow fall this year… even when we had little bits of snow she was still playing with them. So there they’ll sit, until it melts away. Waiting to play in the Spring.
Within a couple of days, the girls’ snowmom, snowowl, and snowbaby had been destroyed. Pushed over, trampled on, and left as nothing but piles and clumps of snow. Then provided with an ever growing blanket of snow to cover their exposed remains, there is not much left to see.
And if you can’t see the little piles under the blanket of white, here’s another try from a different angle: