Granted, it’s not actually official yet… but I feel safe to yell from the rooftop:
CANADA HAS OUR FIRST ELECTED GREEN MP!!!!!!
I’ve actually had to stop watching the numbers roll in. Every poll counted has E.May’s lead increasing. It started with only 20 votes, and now is hovering around the 1000 mark. Every poll forced new tears to spring from my eyes. I am sooo very proud to be a part of this moment in Canadian history.
Elizabeth May in Parliament!!! What does that mean? It means we finally have a voice. After years, and years, and years of fighting, of not being heard, of being dismissed, we finally have a voice. A holistic voice in parliament. A voice of reason, that understands how all systems are connected. How the environment and the economy are not separate issues, but one and the same. How we can not forge ahead with one at the expense of the other.
To truly have a voice? I’m not really sure what it will mean. But I do know that it’s only the start. Today was something we have fought long and hard to see. And it really is only the start. So very much work to be done, but I know that Elizabeth is up for the task. I know she will fight for us, and ensure that we are heard. She is a strong, smart, well-spoken woman… and I know she is ready for all this means.
Today, as I always have been, I am proud to be GREEN!
For the last several days I’ve been trying to come up with the word. You know, this idea that every year we should have a word that becomes our focus. A word that will play into our decisions, and the way we move through the world. I really was struggling.
I don’t make resolutions. Resolutions are nice little throw away ideas that lack action. They are the frosting on your cake, they are yummy, pretty, make you feel good when they’re in your mouth… but they don’t really do you any good. And in the end can leave you feeling badly about yourself – just one more thing you didn’t follow through on. Unnecessary fat on an otherwise perfectly yummy vegan cake.
So… I liked this idea I’d been hearing about. That rather than making resolutions, we should chose a word that we would strive towards in our daily lives. I can do that. I have completed project 365 (that’s right, tonights the last night, the blog will be taking a new turn in the new year… stick with me to find out where it’s going), so I know I can stay focused on an idea, and be mindful of it every day for an entire year. But what I wanted to focus on just kept eluding me.
I’ve had a concept in mind… a kinda vague idea. Something I’ve struggled with personally for as long as I can remember, and that has driven me in a negative way for equally as long as it’s been present in my life. But it’s not a word… it’s a concept.
The idea that I am good enough. It’s tough for me. I have this need within myself to live up to the expectations of others. I need approval. So this is what I thought, perhaps, 2011 could be about… learning that I am good enough. That I don’t need to be what YOU think I should be. That, ME, the me that I am when I’m all alone, when no-one is watching, is all I ever need to be. That I am good enough, even when the news crew is filming, I am good enough. That I don’t need to put on airs, that I don’t need to impress, that I just need to lay it out there… THIS is who I am, and I am good enough. I am accountable to me, to my daughter, and to my family, but that’s it. I don’t need the approval of anyone else.
A good idea, right?
Yeah. A good idea.
But it just wasn’t quite right.
So yesterday I take the idea to a trusted group of women, the MomWriters (women, writers, mothers, and allies)… and ask them for a word. One word that encompassed what I was trying to say. Got lots of clever responses – as I suspected I might – but still, nothing that grabbed me and shook me and said WAKE UP GRRRL! THIS IS IT!
I’d kinda given up. Figured lets just go with a concept. After all, it’s the idea that counts. It’s the concept. It’s being mindful of one thing in your life in a way that you weren’t aware of it before.
I started browsing around online… googling things like “no resolution”, “a word for 2011”, “no more resolutions”, etc… didn’t find anything at all that was even remotely interesting. In fact, I was about to turn off Firefox and go pop in a movie when a freaking explosion went off in my brain.
I don’t need to measure up to anyone’s standards, because 2011 is about PERSONAL JOY!
So there you have it.
It may not be one word, but it is exactly what I was looking for. Exactly what I needed, what I think we all need. So stick around with me. The beginning of the week, and the beginning of the new year has something in store for us all – if you’re interested in joining me.
Happy New Year!