Tonight we started the girl’s bedtime routine at 6:30… which seems crazy early. But it takes us about an hour from start to finish. Normally we start getting ready for bed at 7:30 with the intent of being in bed for 8:30. Tonight was a lot better.
I don’t know if that’s really the answer though, starting bedtime at 6:30??? We normally wake up between 8:30 and 9:30, and on occasion sleep as late as 10:00 (though that is really unusual). On days when we’re all just home hanging out that’s no big deal… but when her Dad works that means he only gets a couple of hours with her – and that’s just not enough.
I thought kids were supposed to need less sleep as time went on, not more? Or is there something else going on here that I’m just not aware of. Oy! You’d think I’d just be happy to have a temper tantrum free day – sure there were a couple of little mads, but no fall apart, break down, freak out moments… and THAT is a big deal when you consider the week we’ve had. LOL
So, in less than a week Caesar has managed to push his way firmly into our little family. I have a feeling he may well be staying on past his engagement with the ladies. LOL Of course, I can’t say for sure one way or another just yet… but if I were to place a bet? It would be that he may very well have found his forever home. When kid-kid announces “I think he needs to belong to me, he just loves me TOO much”? Well… that says a lot. And what says even more? How about a quick iphone capture or two?
I don’t know about you, but I love the “crappy pictures” blog. It’s a pretty good look inside life as a parent, and has a way of capturing those moments you need to laugh about so you don’t start crying. LOL One particular drawing that I picture quite often, that I first saw ages ago now… or, well… what feels like ages ago in Mommy to a young child time, can be found here: http://crappypictures.com/2011/06/what-it-is-like-to-not-sleep-at-night-illustrated-with-crappy-pictures.html
Now, I have that link set to open in a new window. So go take a peek if you haven’t seen it before, and then get your butts back here for the rest of my blog post. I’ll wait.
See? This is me waiting.
Are you finished yet?
How about now?
Just about done?
Back to me. 😉
Well, when the kid fell asleep last night, as usual I wrote my blog post… it was pretty boring, but it had been a “sick day” and my brain was pretty much toast. The girl was still sick today, but I actually got to have a small bath break in the evening while her Daddy and her each played games on their respective mobile devices, next to one another, in the same room, rather than playing WITH one another (I wasn’t going to complain, I needed the break). Okay, now I’m getting off topic (seriously, I hadn’t had a mommy-only bath in MONTHS, it was SOOOO good… just me and the only grown up reading material I could find – a Readers Digest from last year). LOL
Okay, so anyway… After writing in my blog, the Daddy and I turned on a couple of episodes of Community to wind down for the night. It wasn’t long before THIS happened:
And yes… that is the kid, taking up the entire top half of our family bed. So, while Amber so perfectly illustrated the baby starfish in her crappy pictures blog, this is what it’s looks like when a four and a half year old starfishes across the entire family bed.
Gotta love it!
Child will not sleep.
We finished our usual nighttime routine and laid down in the dark at 8:20. It’s now 9:40 and she is still awake. If I didn’t log on to blog anyway, I’d have lost my mind. It’s bad enough when I lay in bed at night unable to sleep, but laying in bed waiting for my night to start for over an hour??? Holy crap. Talk about wanting to bang ones head into a wall. Jeepers.
Neither the girl nor I sleep without melatonin. We just can’t slow our brains down enough, so we just lie awake for hours. Thankfully, with melatonin it’s usually no more than six – eight minutes in the dark for the kid and equal for me. Of course, she takes less than a third of the dose that I take. Well… usually. Tonight she’s had twice her regular dose which is about half my regular dose (don’t even ask how much of the stuff I take when I’m away at a dog show, YIKES!).
I think the excitement over the Valentine’s Day party her pre-k class is having has got her too wound up. This girl, like her mommy, loves to give. Even Yule and Christmas don’t get her wound up enough that she can’t sleep. But the excitement over giving everyone in her class a home made bookmark and individually wrapped and decorated cupcakes? Too awesome for sleep. Of course, I’ve now had to pull out the big guns and told her that if she doesn’t sleep she will be too tired to actually go to school tomorrow. So no sleep means no Valetine’s party.
Well. I thought we almost had her there. A couple minutes remaining still… but nope. She’s thrashing all over the place again. Ugh. Wish me luck. Got to get this kid to sleep and no idea how the heck I’m going to do it. Pretty quick I’m going to be forced to tag out and get her Dad in here to double team her. Good freakin’ grief. Oy!