Okay. Yeah. I’ve been a really bad blogger lately. Well, maybe not by most standards. After all, there are MANY bloggers who post once a week or even less frequently. 😉 But for me? This is bad.
I don’t know if it’s the weather, or just the physical exhaustion after working so hard getting Breaking the Silence up and running then following it up with a very physically demanding photo shoot… Whatever it is? It’s kicking my ass. I’m just done. So I am VERY grateful that the Easter break is now upon us. Not having to worry about our regular schedule, and getting the girl off to school, should help a great deal. And even better? The next couple of days we’re actually supposed to see plus temperatures!
I am so done with this cold and all this snow. I am dying for it all to melt away. I want to cultivate the ground. This house has a nice big garden space (that was unused for who knows how long) and I’m just itching to get out there and plant something. I have so many plans for the outdoor space here, and this extended Winter is making me a little itchy… seriously. I’m so irritable I’ve definitely got a case of cabin fever… Spring just cannot get here fast enough.
The big move is only four sleeps away. The girl says she’s excited about it, and I believe her… but I know she’s feeling some anxiety too – even if it’s below the surface. The way she’s cuddling in extra tight at night, and has been keeping me awake (even though she’s fast asleep herself) the last few nights tells a very clear story.
We are all excited… but it’s tough to leave your home behind. For the girl, this is the only home she’s ever known. For us “grown ups”, it’s the longest either one of us has ever lived in one place. Nine and a half years isn’t so easy a thing to shrug off.
All the anxiety and stress though? I have a feeling it will melt away once we walk in the front door of our new house. After all, we wouldn’t have chosen it if it hadn’t felt like home the minute we had walked in the first time we viewed it. And it did. It really did. So I know we’re leaving behind a home we love, but we’re gaining a home that I think we’ll come to love even more. 🙂
For the last couple of weeks, I’ve been relatively stressed and eager to share. This blog is really where I go to hash out things I’m concerned about, to put dreams into reality, to work out problems, to find ideas, and just to get stuff off my chest. So not sharing THIS? That’s been really freakin’ tough.
Yep, what you see above is the MLS listing for our new house. We signed off on the conditions on Friday. It was a little stressful there for a bit… see, we’d sold our house in less than a day (with multiple offers) LAST Friday. So waiting for financing and the home inspection so we could officially call this place ours? Yeah. Stressful.
We love our crappy little house. We really do. But the girl is ready for her own bedroom, and well, as much as I hated to admit it, we’ve outgrown it. 620 square feet is fine for a couple, or even for a family of three when the third is still tiny. But Lily-Ann is ready for her own space… and that’s not going to change. Thankfully, many of the things we love about our home we’ll still have in the new place.
Our lot will still be a double lot, in fact, we’re adding a couple of feet. LOL Our current lot is 50×122, our new lot is 50×124. 😉 And while we’re gaining over 400 square feet of space inside, the house itself is still really cozy, cute, and cottage-like. We’re also still in the same neighbourhood – which I love so very much. And get this! We’re going from having a seven block walk to school to a two block walk. How fabulous is that???
We’ve got a ton of work ahead of us. We’ve lived here nine years, so that’s a whole lot of life that needs to be boxed up. And right during my busiest crafting season (which I’m not thrilled about). So this year we may end up having to purchase a lot of our Halloween costumes and accessories instead of having home sewn/made ones. But that’s a relatively little sacrifice.
Our possession date is November 10th, and we hand over the keys for this place on the 15th. That gives us four days to move house and clean up before we have to be out of here for good. I’m going to miss this place. Yeah, I know. It’s falling down around us. Heck, the recommendation was to tear it down and build a new place when we bought it – even back then we purchased it for the land value. LOL But it’s seen us through a lot. It’ll be weird seeing it torn down. I’ll have to take a bunch of pictures after we’re all boxed up… to remember all those little details I put into it. I’ll have a new canvas now, a new place for my murals and inspirations. The girl is already cooking up all sorts of projects for her room, and I’ll only be too happy to oblige. And… I have to admit, my wheels are turning already too. 🙂
This house is going to be amazing. It really is. I’m so looking forward to spending the next phase of our lives there. It’s going to be great!
Big thanks to Chris Craik (http://hallmarkrealty.ca/agentdir=3831/index.html) for all his help in finding the perfect place for us, and selling ours so darn quickly. As well as to Sandra Scheiss (www.leadingedgebrokers.com) and associates for landing us our new mortgage, even when we weren’t sure it would be possible. Only one step left, and that’s to send everything to the lawyers – which, after everything else, is definitely the easy part.
A “for sale” sign showed up not too long ago on the house three doors down from ours. The day I saw it I remarked that the day after it says sold, it will be torn down.
The house wasn’t a tumbledown shack or a health inspectors nightmare. It was a nice little home. But that’s just it… it was a nice LITTLE home. A lot of our neighbourhood consists of homes that are 60+ years old, that range in size from 400 – 800 square feet, and that are situated on double wide or one and a half wide lots. It’s pretty unusual to see one go up for sale that isn’t purchased by a business, demolished, and replaced with duplexes. It’s sad, and a step backwards to see our neighbourhood be rebuilt like this.
Granted, this very process gave us an awesome neighbour on the one side. He moved in (and is a renter) when the home beside us was demolished and replaced with two rental properties. So I won’t make a blanket statement that all renters are bad – because they aren’t. But a neighbourhood of rental properties is often a neighbourhood in crisis.
I know that if someone else had bought our home that it would likely have been demolished. It’s old, small, and would take more money than it’s worth to fix up… and we’re on a double wide lot with lots of beautiful old trees. It’s the kind of lot that realtors refer to as “park like”. The lot was why we bought the house.
Anyway… here’s the excavator:
Sure enough. The sold sign went up, and next thing we know there is an excavator and no house. At least the wee girlie got to see it. She loves excavators.
Building blocks can refer to any number of things, especially in a metaphorical sense. Anything you use to build up to something better is, essentially, a building block. Today though I refer to them in the literal sense… building blocks.
The wee girlie got sick last night at about 2:30 a.m. and hasn’t been well since. No fever though, thank goodness. But that’s meant that we’ve kept today really nice and low key. In the afternoon we spent a couple hours sitting on the floor building with her mega blocks. Something that she loves doing, but that doesn’t require much physical investment.
If you look closely, you’ll see Lily-Ann in the bokeh surrounding her block house.
Here are a couple other shots of the house… playing with my depth of field a little.