The girl had a playdate today with her bestie Parker. They played with Zhu Zhu Pets, had monster pancakes for lunch, played with the Light Bright, made things with the Fazoodles, played with My Little Ponies, got dressed up as royals, played Skylanders, and had just started to play Littlest Pet Shop when his Mom came by to pick him up. It was a great afternoon.
Oh! And I can’t forget… they made some plans for their future too. You see, they plan to get married, and they have now decided that they should have 100 swimming pools and 100 horses. Important things for any couple to have. 😉
Every so often, in life (as in art), something happens that makes you feel valued. I know I make a difference, and I know what I do is important… but in our families, with our mates, sometimes we just get to the point where we just take love for granted. And when something happens to make you stop and realize how deeply someone trusts you? It’s a big deal.
I can’t share the details… yet. We are making some changes, and as much as I LONG to share, we’re keeping things somewhat private for the time being. But I can share this: My husband trusts me far more than I realized. And that feels pretty darn good. 🙂
I’ve been out sick the last couple of days, and am just as sick today as I was yesterday… so really shouldn’t be blogging at all. BUT I hate to miss a deadline, even a self imposed one. I knew I could fit L and M into one post, and as long as it went up on Sunday I’d still be on schedule for the Alphabet Blog Challenge. Of course, I figured all this out on Friday afternoon, when I figured I’d b all shiny by Sunday. And now it’s Sunday. And the last thing I want to be doing is blogging. Seriously.
Being sick sucks. But want to know what makes it easier to get through? Knowing I have the love of someone who will see me through it all… someone who doesn’t care if I’m dripping mucus from every orifice, sinuses unloading in all sorts of unattractive, downright, inhuman ways… And you know what sucks? Knowing that some people are denied this same gooey “stand by me” melodrama that marriage provides.
Sure, you can stand by someone without a contract (and lets face it, when you get down to brass tacks that is what marriage is), and for those who are content doing so without? Well, I think that’s great! In fact, I know some happily unmarried folks who have been in a state of unwedded bliss for almost as long as I’ve been alive. However, for those who WANT to be married, they should have the same right to do so as anyone. Some chicks marry chicks, some doods marry doods… get over it people.
I, for one, am glad this is one area in which the Canadian government hasn’t seriously screwed over it’s people. This is one thing which they’ve gotten very right. It shouldn’t matter what parts a person has, love and marriage are about what’s in your HEART not what’s in your PANTS. And now that I’ve made my point? I’m closing up my computer, and crawling back into my flu-induced stupor, feeling much better for NOT having missed my deadline.
There are certain times, when a person is delivering a certain type of news, when an in person visit should be mandatory. Sometimes a phone call, text, or FB status update just aren’t appropriate ways to deliver tidings. In those situations, lunch, coffee, or just an in person chat, should be mandatory.
- If you are delivering news of a break up, do it in person. It’s uncomfortable, so a meal is not necessary. Just a quick get in, get out, meeting at a coffee shop works.
- If you are sharing news about a negative diagnosis or any kind of medical issues, do it in person. A meal in a quiet restaurant, or take out in your dining room is best. Food and wine always go a long way in situations like these.
- If a family member or loved one has suffered a tragedy or passed from this life, if at all possible that’s an in person encounter if I’ve ever come across one. And this news? There is no way for this to be good. Do it at home, where you’ll both feel comfortable going to pieces.
- If you want to take your relationship to the next level (be it going steady, moving in, getting married, or what-have-you), that’s an in person conversation. And it can happen in almost any context and end up pleasant.
- If you sharing news of your nuptials with individuals who mean a lot to you, but who couldn’t be there (whether you eloped, or just had a tiny service, whatever), totally something you do in person. Invite the other party out to a nice restaurant. Food and wine are definitely in order.
- If you’re having a baby, don’t break that news from a distance. Head out to a nice brunch spot, share something light and yummy, and toast the new bun in your oven with a nice sparkling flavoured water. Hugs, and potentially happy tears, will be shared!
So don’t let your sister find out from your Twitter feed that you’re pregnant, don’t tell your son over the phone that you had a private service and got married, don’t break up with someone via your blog, and don’t let your granddaughter find out you have three months to live by way of BBM. There is just some news that is best delivered in person, whether it’s to share a hug, a toast, or a cry… Certain news simply demands a meet-up.
As the Sparks would say: “Share and Be a Friend”.
Well, after putting in two days of overtime, I finished all the edits and enhancements. That said, here’s the second preview from Erin and Spencer’s wedding, the formals:
Erin, Spencer – Thank you for inviting me to share your special day with you. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness together.