I’m beginning to think I may need to start blogging in the afternoons. Lately I’m so beat by the time the girl is in bed that it’s hard to string two sentences together – forget being witty and interesting while doing so. Settling in and nesting is an exhausting undertaking, and this is our first time doing so with a five year old under foot… which only multiplies the exhaustion and the amount of time it takes to get anything done. I am hopeful though, slowly we will put together a room. And yes, I said A room, as in ONE room… eventually ONE room will be finished, and then we’ll move onto another. For now though, we live surrounded by boxes and piles of partially organized items. And I’m just too darn exhausted to do anything about it. 😛
Another night, another positively exhausting day. At least the basement didn’t flood again (of course, I didn’t do any laundry today either).
Damon and I spent the evening putting together the girl’s new loft bed, while she played at my parents place. Her Tio and Auntie Tabs bought her a new (much smaller) loft which meant we could leave the extra large one we’d built at the old place. It would have been a major headache to get the old one out – especially considering we had to build most of it in the room as it was too big to do any other way. The new one is much smaller and cuter too. And, for now, the loft is full of her boxes that still need unpacking… but it will eventually become Ponyville, home to all the ponies of Equestria.
Now I’m going to bed. LOL
How many times does it take to have a plumber actually FIX whatever the heck is wrong? Seriously? We’ve now had people from the city out four times, and had someone we hired privately out twice… and the issue with our basement flooding over and over again is still going on. We’ve had a couple different drains snaked, and one of them had a video feed fed through it so we could actually see the pipes, but now it looks like we need to stick video equipment down another drain. ACK! It just never seems to end. 😦
While I read to the girl and put her to sleep, Damon has been out at my Grampa’s place. He’s borrowing a toilet snake. When he gets home we’re going to snake that particular drain ourselves and see if that makes a difference.
Good grief. I mean seriously. I just want this over and done with so we can start enjoying our new home.
Don’t even get me started… another LONG day dealing with plumbing issues. Seriously, not a happy camper. And while last time it was tree roots on city property, this time it’s apparently an internal problem. How many plumbing problems can one house have?!?!? Good grief. Seriously, we only moved in a couple weeks ago. GAH!
I love my house, I love my house, I love my house… I have to keep saying it to remind myself. Jeepers. I really do love my house, but how many things can one family be expected to deal with so soon after taking possession before they snap? Ugh.
It has been a long couple of days. The water started coming in yesterday morning, and kept right on coming through most of today. It finally stopped at about 3:00 or so. And the folks from the city got to work in our basement at about 6:00. I’m way to exhausted to even think. So long story short? We had issues with roots and pipes knocking heads. It’s “fixed” now, but only after damage to our basement – water and sewage can do nasty things to a home even if they’re only a couple inches high. It also appears that this will likely be an ongoing problem for the next 18 months or so – as that’s how long it takes for things to “settle” after this type of a problem. Like I said, this whole thing just has me exhausted… physically and emotionally.
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Yeah, it’s been a while. I know. Things have been a little crazy hectic here. But we finally got everything moved out of the old house and into our new home (and the garage and shed). No, we aren’t actually unpacked yet… but I’m making slow progress.
We have our computer/crafting nook set up. Which, let’s face it, is of prime importance in this family – and I’d suspect many more others than will admit to it. The girl has already been busy at work both on the computer and sitting at her own little craft station, making all sorts of things.
The girl’s bedroom is MOSTLY set up. For now her mattress is on the floor and she does have some boxes still that need unpacking. She has usable space though, and her clothes are all accessible in her closet. So I’m happy with where we’re at there (for now).
We moved in our little antique “three bears” kitchen table and chairs yesterday so finally got to use them. If you remember way back when, I blogged about them when we first bought them. 🙂 They’re super cute, but I’ll be honest… while their style fit in perfectly at our old place? They don’t match quite as well here. So I’m open for suggestions on how to paint/stain/refinish them to help them blend a little better in a European kitchen.
Our bedroom is partially put together. Still a long way to go in here… but we have a bed, a closet, and a tv (as well as a butt load of boxes). I know it will come together yet, but yeah. Our room isn’t exactly the priority.
The bathroom requires some work… new tub, new vanity, new counter top, new light fixture(s), new floor. Honestly? I think the only things I’m okay with keeping are the toilet and the sink. So we’ve definitely got our work cut out for us in there.
So yeah… exhausted. But I am slowly putting things together.
Damon had taken the last two weeks off to help pack up the old place, move, and get started on the unpacking. Today was his first day back at work. It feels kinda odd not having him around. I’d gotten used to it.
Today was also the first day I used my new key fob for our alarm system. I’ve never had an alarm system, so it does take some getting used to. Gotta get in the habit of pushing those buttons when I’m supposed to. LOL
Today the girl had her school photo retakes too. And yes, I’m sure this one will turn out MUCH better. She was just too darn busy playing with her friends in line to want to bother with the picture last time. Where today it was just her in the room, so it went much easier.
Further, today marks the International Day of Remembrance. A couple years ago I had organized a candlelight vigil down at the memorial bandshell beside the North Saskatchewan River. This year I’ll mark it quietly at home with my family. And I do ask that those of you who aren’t doing something en mass do the same. Just take a moment to remember all those amazing people who lost their lives simply for having the courage to live authentically. It is simply not right that so very many *trans women and men are murdered EVERY YEAR for being themselves. It is so beyond a time for change. Some Women have penises, and some Men have a vagina – get over it. People should not have to die because they don’t fit into some other persons idea of what “man” or “woman” means. My *trans sisters and brothers are incredible, strong, brave, compassionate individuals and they should not have to fear for their safety every time they leave their homes. So yes, if you do nothing else, take a few minutes out of your day to remember the many, many men and women who have been brutally murdered for the crime of being who they genuinely are.
The big move is only four sleeps away. The girl says she’s excited about it, and I believe her… but I know she’s feeling some anxiety too – even if it’s below the surface. The way she’s cuddling in extra tight at night, and has been keeping me awake (even though she’s fast asleep herself) the last few nights tells a very clear story.
We are all excited… but it’s tough to leave your home behind. For the girl, this is the only home she’s ever known. For us “grown ups”, it’s the longest either one of us has ever lived in one place. Nine and a half years isn’t so easy a thing to shrug off.
All the anxiety and stress though? I have a feeling it will melt away once we walk in the front door of our new house. After all, we wouldn’t have chosen it if it hadn’t felt like home the minute we had walked in the first time we viewed it. And it did. It really did. So I know we’re leaving behind a home we love, but we’re gaining a home that I think we’ll come to love even more. 🙂
Okay, ya got me. I’ve been kind of a lazy blogger lately. My posts aren’t really sounding like me, they are short and not nearly as engaging. Yeah. I know.
The fact of the matter is, with everything on my brain lately, I’m just not quite myself. I’m stressed about the house… packing up and leaving this place behind is tough. I’m super excited about the new place and what it will mean for our family, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that this is our home. We got engaged in the bathroom. We first talked about having a baby sitting in this bedroom. We’ve lived lots of places together, Damon and I, but this was the first one that was home. Nine years here. It’s a hard thing to walk away from, even if the place no longer meets our needs.
So yeah. With the house on my brain, it’s hard to think of much else for long enough to blog about it. …and I’m guessing you don’t want to hear me posting about the house every day. 😉
We take possession one month from today. We already have so many boxes packed that it’s tough to move around in here. We haven’t got even a small portion of the packing done yet. There’s more than one reason we stayed here nine years (even though the intention was about three years when we bought the place). LOL
It’s a good thing. This is going to be such an amazing thing for us. But that doesn’t take away from how difficult it is.
That said, here’s something cute and fun:
We’ve been reading Medusa the Mean (yep, another book in the Goddess Girls series). Lily-Ann absolutely LOVED chapter 7, Kindergarten Buddies. Of course, being IN kindergarten herself probably had a lot to do with it… though it was a super adorable chapter that made her giggle and grin repeatedly (especially when she realized that there was a crush starting between Medusa and Dionysus, and then further imagined her Daddy as being like Dionysus and herself as Andromeda). So tonight, before bedtime, she decided to draw Medusa and Dionysus – as inspired by the Goddess Girls books and the cover illustration of Medusa the Mean. And for a five year old? I was darn impressed. 😉
For the last couple of weeks, I’ve been relatively stressed and eager to share. This blog is really where I go to hash out things I’m concerned about, to put dreams into reality, to work out problems, to find ideas, and just to get stuff off my chest. So not sharing THIS? That’s been really freakin’ tough.
Yep, what you see above is the MLS listing for our new house. We signed off on the conditions on Friday. It was a little stressful there for a bit… see, we’d sold our house in less than a day (with multiple offers) LAST Friday. So waiting for financing and the home inspection so we could officially call this place ours? Yeah. Stressful.
We love our crappy little house. We really do. But the girl is ready for her own bedroom, and well, as much as I hated to admit it, we’ve outgrown it. 620 square feet is fine for a couple, or even for a family of three when the third is still tiny. But Lily-Ann is ready for her own space… and that’s not going to change. Thankfully, many of the things we love about our home we’ll still have in the new place.
Our lot will still be a double lot, in fact, we’re adding a couple of feet. LOL Our current lot is 50×122, our new lot is 50×124. 😉 And while we’re gaining over 400 square feet of space inside, the house itself is still really cozy, cute, and cottage-like. We’re also still in the same neighbourhood – which I love so very much. And get this! We’re going from having a seven block walk to school to a two block walk. How fabulous is that???
We’ve got a ton of work ahead of us. We’ve lived here nine years, so that’s a whole lot of life that needs to be boxed up. And right during my busiest crafting season (which I’m not thrilled about). So this year we may end up having to purchase a lot of our Halloween costumes and accessories instead of having home sewn/made ones. But that’s a relatively little sacrifice.
Our possession date is November 10th, and we hand over the keys for this place on the 15th. That gives us four days to move house and clean up before we have to be out of here for good. I’m going to miss this place. Yeah, I know. It’s falling down around us. Heck, the recommendation was to tear it down and build a new place when we bought it – even back then we purchased it for the land value. LOL But it’s seen us through a lot. It’ll be weird seeing it torn down. I’ll have to take a bunch of pictures after we’re all boxed up… to remember all those little details I put into it. I’ll have a new canvas now, a new place for my murals and inspirations. The girl is already cooking up all sorts of projects for her room, and I’ll only be too happy to oblige. And… I have to admit, my wheels are turning already too. 🙂
This house is going to be amazing. It really is. I’m so looking forward to spending the next phase of our lives there. It’s going to be great!
Big thanks to Chris Craik (http://hallmarkrealty.ca/agentdir=3831/index.html) for all his help in finding the perfect place for us, and selling ours so darn quickly. As well as to Sandra Scheiss (www.leadingedgebrokers.com) and associates for landing us our new mortgage, even when we weren’t sure it would be possible. Only one step left, and that’s to send everything to the lawyers – which, after everything else, is definitely the easy part.